how many of you can honestly say you are Happy? and this question is addressed to over 24 year olds - anyone younger than that has not lived enough yet to maturely make a judgement. those of you over 24 who can say you are happy, are a very blessed lot, and but a minority.
most people i talk to have to think hard - and when that happens, their 'happy' is generally being optimistic or positive-minded, or they actually mean 'contented'.
so many mistakes are made throughout life - some revocable, others not. we learn not to regret, but to learn from these mistakes and not make them again. it is difficult not to regret, but it is good to try hard and eventually we can - it's called 'blank out'..
some of us repeat the mistakes, and at the time of repetition, do not realise we are jumping from the oil into the fire, until it's too late. sad, but then we have to make the best of it - wear fireproof clothes all the time!
some of us are faster learners and are smart enough to make changes for the better - these among us will reach happiness sooner.
and a few of us actually do not know what 'unhappy' means - such blessed, charmed lives- it's true, there are such enviable people around - i know one or two myself; and the amazing thing is - the blessings and charm continue even after marriage!
as for me - so what if I'm not happy - doesn't change what I do each day. perhaps i smile a bit less, perhaps i lose a bit of me each day, but life does go on!
so I'll make the most of what I have.. and hope all of you will too....
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